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The Letters Below are Posted for the Purpose of :
- Prayer – (Identifying information has been omitted.)
- Families learning they aren’t alone: Someone has a story similar to their own
- Families learning from each other, gleaning information
- Educating Others: Illustrating how widespread and harmful these problems are
Thank you for taking the time to read these original letters from birth parents, grandparents, foster families, and pre-adoptive families with multi-racial children negatively affected by Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA). Except where birth parents have requested otherwise, Identifying information has been omitted to protect the children. So, as clarification for legislators that have asked – YES – These letters have come from many different states. And NO – the tribes involved are not always from the same state as the child. ICWA allows tribes to petition for jurisdcition across state lines
Are these families receiving Due Process and Equal Protection?
(Some of these letters were not originally posted at the time of their writing due to the illness of CAICW co-founder Roland Morris, who passed on June 9, 2004)
- M’s Story – Four Year Old Boy Taken From the Only Family He’d Known Due to ICWA…and the Outcome.
- Birth Father – son only 13% heritage from contesting tribe
- “I’m a Indian grandmother…”
- “You don’t understand Native American Ways”
- 11-year-old taken from her home
- 6-Year-Old taken by tribal court order from Non-tribal Birth Father
- Adoption Agency question – Is this an ICWA case?
- Adoption okayed, and then stopped
- Adoptive Cousin
- Adoptive family just found out the birth-mother is 1/16
- Adoptive family lost custody re ICWA, “has not stopped crying – (Baby) has been gone for nearly two hours now “
- Adoptive Family, “Do we have any chance at all?”
- Adoptive Grandmother
- Adoptive mom
- Adoptive Mom, non-tribal “We are so scared…”
- Adoptive mother of two children who were just recently made members
- Adoptive parents, infant
- African Amer. adoptive mother, “this child is the love of our life”
- Aunt, 1/64 Cherokee
- Aunt, tribal, “ICWA is doing children more harm than good”
- Birth Father, enrolled
- Birth mom asks about her rights
- Birth Mom, lost custody
- Birth Mother, “I am worried about my childrens welfare”
- Birth Mother, “I love my daughter very much”
- Birth Mother, Enrolled
- Birth Mother, enrolled, “I need him in my life”
- Birth Mother, Irish, “ICWA has taken my children from me…”
- Birth Mother, non-tribal
- Birth mother, non-tribal can’t get child support
- Birth Mother, tribal ” i want what is best for all 4 kids”
- Birth parents lose newborn, claim there was no grounds
- Can Law put baby back with messed up family just because of ICWA?
- Canadian Tribe tells US Mom, pregnant with Twins, that they have right over adoption decisions
- County gives birth father custody, Tribal court sends police to take children
- Cousin concerned
- Enrollable mother wants non-tribal adoptive home
- Enrolled Adoptive mother, might lose kids
- Enrolled Birth Father
- Enrolled Mom Fears her Child will be Placed on Rez
- Enrolled Mother
- Enrolled mother questions ICWA jurisdiction
- Enrolled mother questions ICWA jurisdiction
- Family adopting little girl who is 1/4 (tribal) “and 3/4 Caucasian”
- Father 1/4 tribal (Daughter, 1/8) – doesn’t know why ICWA involved
- Father raises ICWA after Adoptive Parents have had child several months
- FEATHER’S Grandmother, we “just don’t have any more money”
- FEATHER’S STORY : “Because I’m white I have no rights to my daughter”
- Foster Dad wanting to know definition of an Indian Child
- Foster Family; kids have been in our home for 18 months
- Foster Father, non-tribal, Canadian
- Foster mom wants to adopt
- Foster Mom wants to know
- Foster parents wanting to adopt infant
- Foster parents, ” I am writing in desperation…”
- Grandmother struggling to get Custody
- Grandmother, desperate for help for enrolled daughter
- Grandmother, non-tribal, asking help for daughter
- Grandmother, tribal
- Grandmother, tribal member
- Grandmother, tribal member, wants grandchildren back
- Grandmother; “My son is so distraught right now…”
- Grandparents fought ICWA for three years to help birth parents get kids back
- Grandparents worried about grandchildren
- I am a foster parent in need of HELP
- Idaho, Non-Indian Mom chose home, tribal gov’t interfered (De Javu 15 yrs later)
- Interested Mother
- Legal Guardians, non-tribal
- Looking for legal help
- Military family overseas asks about pre-adoptive son
- Mom wasn’t a tribal member, so they took her daughter from her
- Mom, I need to sign over my rights if I want to see my son again
- MySpace page
- Neither child nor parents are enrolled – Why is LICWAC involved?
- Non-Indian Foster / Adoptive Parents
- Non-tribal Aunt, concerned for step-niece
- Non-tribal Birth Mom arrested by tribe while trying to protect daughter
- Non-tribal foster parents: “…My husband and I are in the middle of a court battle for our foster son…”
- Non-tribal relatives ask about their rights
- Our grandson was placed with a married Christian couple; ICWA might remove child
- Parents concerned about their Grandchild’s adoption
- Potential Adoptive Parents
- Potential Private Adoption
- Pre-adoptive parents of non-enrollable child
- Sister-in-law concerned about 2-yr-old they have been raising – Can Canadian tribe interfere?
- Social Worker re: 3 children
- State Representative re: adopting
- Texas Family Needs Your Help
- Thank God
- Tribal adoptive family hurt by ICWA, , “If we were treated this badly by a Tribe …I can only imagine how they treat the average Joe”
- Tribal Social Services put my granddaughter back into danger..
- Tribe said yes, then changed mind
- Two little girls, taken from their adoptive home
- We fear for her life
- Woman asking for help for abused sister-in-law
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